SOME people spend their lives looking for 'it'. They should go to Ladywell.

It is easy for pub reviewers to look so hard they forget what they are actually looking for, but The Ladywell Tavern jogged my memory.

Tastes obviously vary - some people prefer peanuts to cashews, Frost to Morse or even Arnie to Sly. It is important to remember, however, that I am right.

Not that this pub is perfect, of course. Paint flakes from the windowsills and doors and the loos are grotty.

Inside the tables are worn and sofas battered. Believe it or not, some of this is good. It is called character and it gives a place a lived-in charm that shows people have enjoyed spending time there.

My weary bones crumpled into the old leather couch like a kitten in a basket and I eyed the range of dog-eared board games forlornly, wishing I'd brought an accomplice.

An ancient jukebox in one corner kicked out old rock and roll tunes at a volume at which you could chat AND appreciate the music. Sounds simple but so many places falter.

Surrounded by pictures, old wooden clocks and numerous posters advertising events at the adjoining Misty Moon gallery - actual Jaws from James Bond, Richard Kiel is coming - I felt more comfortable than at home.

Although I did get that disappointing feeling of when you go to the cupboard but someone's eaten what you're looking for.

I was looking forward to a sample of the Brockley Brewing Company’s offering, as The Ladywell Tavern is only a handful of pubs to sell it, but was out of luck.

I settled for a reasonable Timothy Taylor Landlord, satisfyingly served in a stein, for £3.80.

The trendy young barmaid with a nose piercing and a cardigan - simultaneously rebellious and sensible - was happy, friendly and cool which makes a changed from some of the trolls you encounter in this job.

But my woes returned when I stepped back onto something, or someone. I'd only bloody nailed the pub dog, hadn't I?

Every pub should have a dog and this chappy was cute and friendly. Fortunately no harm was done.

The Ladywell Tavern is popular locally - it was crowned Lewisham Pub of the Year in 2010 - and has a full entertainment schedule including live bands, quiz nights, film screenings and karaoke.

When I left, the landlord stopped his conversation to bid me farewell and say 'take care'. Sometimes it’s the little things that make the difference.

The Ladywell Tavern, 80 Ladywell Road, SE13 7HS

How it rated:

Decor: **** (Shabby-chic. Very comfortable and plenty to look at)

Price: *** (£3.80 for a nice ale – I can’t complain)

Atmosphere: ***** (A place to feel at ease but with plenty to keep you interested)

Staff: ***** (Friendly and warm, yet cool)